It's funny how things work out you know and the way that life changes. People come in and out of your life so easily. With each new person you meet there is nearly always the loss of someone that you have been friends with either a little or a lot. Most of the time you don't even know what happen and why you are no longer friends with them. Or why they are not friends with you.
Did you say or do something wrong that you did not even know about and they don't want to or can't tell you why. So what do you do about it.
Do you try to call that person and find out why or contact them when you can. How awkward is that feeling though? Do you feel comfortable in that situation to be able to contact someone who may not want to talk to you anyway for any reason. I reason that you are not aware of but they feel that strongly about that they don't want to talk to you about it.
And isn't that just immature of them. Not to say what they are feeling and what needs to be said for there to finalization on your part. At least you know what is going on.
Is what has happened or been said that bad that you cannot talk about it like adults and be mature enough to work it out.
Like any relationship, shouldn't it be a matter of working things out and communication. If you talk about your problems then you will be able to work them out and grow from the experience.
I think it is wrong though for some one to just ignore you and shut you out when you don't have any understanding as to what you have said.
Even if you do have a clue, are you really that immature or scared, not to be able to discuss it in a mature and sensible way.
I don't see myself as being this way. If I have a problem with some one then I will try to discuss it with them. However, it does all depend on the situation. If it is just something that has been said and is a minor problem or disagreement, then yes, it is easy to get over. If it is someone cheating on another or a major problem then I think that there is always to possibility for there being a point of no return.
For instance, if a partner was to cheat on you and you found out about it then yes, I can understand that there should be no return. That is, if you are not in an open relationship.
My problem is that some people just don't know how to communicate their problems. Are they afraid of confrontation or are they too proud. Or are they just that arrogant that you should know what the problem is and it is your place to approach them and not the other way around.

The mysteries of the human mind. It is like a maze that no one can work out as it is constantly evolving.
I mean really, what is the point in brooding over trivial matters when life is so short and you could die tomorrow.
The time we have on this rock is only short and I see no reason for bullshit.